First of all - don't call her onto your bed or other furniture if she's on the furniture she will think she owns it, if you are on it also - like your bed - she'll think she owns you too. This sounds like mild dominance and you just have time to stop if if you get on it right now. You have to show her you are in control, this means you own everything, including her toys and food, and you only share on your terms. She sits before she is fed, and she finishes her food in 15 minutes then the bowl is gone. She plays with her toys with you and then they go away. She is only allowed to be where you can see her until she is bulletproof on housebreaking and destructive behaviour. She NEVER growls, jumps up, or bites anyone ever. If she does she gets a strong NO and then straight to her crate for an hour or so - don't let her out until she's quiet. It will take a long time because you got off on the wrong foot, but in the end you should have a good, safe dog.
