I would assume that insect repellents would likely work for wasps as well. However, if not, it is easier for you to avoid them than to keep them away.
That being said, it sounds like your fear borders on a full blown phobia. My personal recommendation is to face your fear, so that being in the presence of a wasp will no longer scare you so much. I know, this is not an easy thing to do. I used to have a terrible phobia of spiders. I cured it by getting a big hairy tarantula and keeping it as a pet. Just being around it lessened my fear over time, then I could confront it more and more... By allowing it on my hand, letting it crawl on me.. And so on. I also performed a sort of dominance exercise.. Killing other spiders whenever I found them... Usually by swatting them with bare hand. Eventually you come to realize that you are the one THEY should be afraid of. I have no fear of spiders anymore.
That being said, it sounds like your fear borders on a full blown phobia. My personal recommendation is to face your fear, so that being in the presence of a wasp will no longer scare you so much. I know, this is not an easy thing to do. I used to have a terrible phobia of spiders. I cured it by getting a big hairy tarantula and keeping it as a pet. Just being around it lessened my fear over time, then I could confront it more and more... By allowing it on my hand, letting it crawl on me.. And so on. I also performed a sort of dominance exercise.. Killing other spiders whenever I found them... Usually by swatting them with bare hand. Eventually you come to realize that you are the one THEY should be afraid of. I have no fear of spiders anymore.