Kittens should stay with mum until 8 weeks old.  You would be better getting an( 8 wk) male kitten but you need to have them both neutered. He new kitten could be done around 5 mths old.

Definitely get a female! I know from experience 2 females get along better,just get them both fixed n they will be fine

You have a better chance of her getting along with a male. But spaying and neutering will be very helpful with any gender, as they will not have as much instinct to fight for resources and defend territory. Good luck with her and the kitten!

A month old kitten is far too young to be taken from its mum. It should be 8 weeks old before you adopt one. Even when neutered a male and a female would most likely pal up better. So assuming that you have been responsible and had your female cat  made neutral by a speying … Read more